Thursday, May 15, 2008

Sadie - The details


Sadie was the kind of dog that could make you smile whether you wanted to or not. She had a ton of energy and would climb all over you, licking any bit of exposed skin that she could find. She was the happiest dog you could ever meet. She didn’t have a mean bone in her whole body.

Sadie wasn’t conventionally beautiful. She had a smooshy pug face and her tounge would hang out as if it didn’t fit in her mouth. Thing is, you didn’t have to look at her long to fall in love.

She was content when she could lay on my mother’s lap with one of her toys stuffed into her little mouth. She would look up with her big ole eyes and melt your heart in a way that no other dog could ever do.

On Monday, May 12, 2008 my Mother took Sadie in to have a surgery that was supposed to open up her air passages to make it easier for Sadie to breathe. This sort of surgery is fairly standard for pugs, and my Mother chose a specialist in her area.

On Tuesday, my Mother took the day off work to pick up her dog. When she arrived, Sadie was still really “out of it” and didn’t even act excited to see my Mother, which is highly out of character. The vet assured my mother that Sadie’s condition was normal and that she may act strange for a few days as she recovered. Taking their instruction, my Mom returned home with her dog and kept vigilant watch over her best friend.

Sadie continued to be extremely lethargic and was vomiting often. Concerned, my Mother called the Vet Clinic several times (once at 3:00 in the morning) expressing extreme concern for her dog’s condition. Tuesday night, my mother barely slept, worried that there was something wrong. The vet continued to encourage my mother to hang tight – she would pull through. They said vomiting was normal and that she should not worry about Sadie’s extreme lethargy. They told her that all of it was normal recovery for the procedure.

Leaving Sadie for the FIRST TIME since picking her up from surgery, my Mother went to a meeting at her place of employment. She was gone for 2 hours. Upon return, Sadie was dead.

My mother is devastated. She feels responsible as though if she had not gone to work, Sadie would still be alive. She feels like if she would have trusted her intuition and FORCED the clinic to look at her regardless of what they said, Sadie would still be alive. She feels like if she had never taken Sadie to get the surgery, she would still be alive. She feels like she paid $2,500 for a vet to kill her dog.

I know that none of this is my Mother’s fault, but she is understandably feeling responsible. I told her that Sadie was lucky to have her as a doggie mom and that she did everything she could do. It makes me sick that she made so many concerned calls to a clinic that ignored her pleas. If they would have told her even one time to bring Sadie in, my Mother would have been there in a second.

I blame the clinic and I am fucking furious. I will be damned if they take my Mother’s money after being so negligent. People pay good money for specialists in order to rely on their expertise. These people dropped the ball and I am so angry…and sad. My mother doesn’t deserve this. Sadie didn’t deserve this. Hell, Mojo doesn’t deserve this either ( I brought him over to keep my Mom company last night and we both bawled as he looked for Sadie).

She was a good dog. I’m going to miss her.

7 comments:

Aunt Becky said...

She WAS a good dog, and I think that everyone who knew her will miss her terribly.

I'm imagining her playing up in Heaven with Finnegan and Atticus. They loved dogs, because they thought that they WERE dogs.

They're all happy, healthy and well-fed. I think that Robes Pierre is in the background somewhere, too, eating crickets and being cool.

We'll miss you Sadie.

HEATHER said...

I am a first time reader and cruised over from Aunt Becky's site. I just want to say how sorry I am for the loss of your fur baby.

KiKi said...

I am sorry for your loss. My condolences.

Kyddryn said...

Poor Sadie...poor Mum...poor Mojo...and poor you...

I'm so sorry you all have to go through this - it's stupid, a waste...and no, your Mum should NOT pay them for killing her beloved friend. She should go kick their collective asses for not honoring the concerns of a doting human and giving some follow-up care.

Shade and Sweetwater,
K

EmmaL said...

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened. Your mom absolutely should not pay those vets bill. I know it's tough to think about in the midst of it, but I would fight that. It just makes me so angry when stuff like this happens. Hang in there - I'll be thinking about you and your mom!

And happy birthday!!

Anonymous said...

They'd be lucky if all I did was sue their freakin' asses!!! I'd probably kill them. I'd cut their brake lines. I cannot and will not be sane when it comes to something like this. God will punish them I hope.

KC said...

Thanks to everyone again. The vet ended up reimbursing my Mother for half the payment.

Personally, I don't think it's enough. At the same time, I don't know that they could ever do enough to make things right.

If you have pets - I hope you never EVER listen to the vet when they say that your animal is fine. If you doubt them - take the pet in anyway. Your peice of mind and the life of your pet is well worth the extra office fees.